Day 29 Peer Pressure

29. Peer Pressure:

The teenage years are a time where peers tend to have more influence that you do. This can be a real shock to the system, particularly if you have always enjoyed a good relationship with your teen and you have previously been influential in your teenager's life. At this age they are starting to be influenced by their friends. If their friends are experimenting with drugs and alcohol, for example, there is a risk that they may do the same. If this should happen, make sure you stick to the facts. You may have concerns but only share them when you know what you are really dealing with. There is nothing worse than being falsely accused of doing something you haven't done.

Try and get to know your teenager's friends. If they are willing to come round and meet you, this is a good sign. If you are able to communicate with them they are more likely to respect your wishes. Depending on the age of your teen you may be able to make connections with your teenager's friends, parents or carers. If you get to know and trust them, you may be able to work with them to help keep your teen safe.

If you continue to communicate with your teen through the rather challenging teenage years, your relationship is likely to grow and strengthen.

If your teen is used to you listening to them, they are more likely to share their concerns with you if they are worried about the behaviour of their friends.

                                                      Are their friends a bad influence?