14. Dating:
Dating is an area of concern for some
families. These days a lot of people join on-line dating sites to
meet new people. They go on Blind Dates and this can be a real source
of anxiety for parents and carers.
Equally, single parents also experience
on-line dating and go on Blind Dates to meet new people and this can
upset their teens.
If at all possible, it is best for
teens, parents and carers to share their concerns with one another.
If everyone knows what is going on this helps to keep everyone safe.
If your teen is meeting someone new and you know where they are and
when they should be back, you are in a good position to help them if
they don 't come home when they say they will. Equally if members of
the family know when you are out on a date they can raise the alarm
if you get into difficulty.
It can be hard for parents and carers
to accept that their teens are old enough to start dating. Teens can
feel very upset when their parents split up and start dating other
people.
The key is to consider the feelings of
all concerned.
If you have a teen at home and have
started dating again it is important to consider their feelings. Make
sure they are kept informed when you meet someone special and allow
them to meet your new girlfriend or boyfriend. The right person will
make sure they are sensitive to your teen.
Equally, if your teen starts dating,
encourage them to invite their boyfriend or girlfriend round from
time to time. That way you can get to know them. If they are willing
to meet you, this is a good sign. Be polite to them and build a
relationship with them if at all possible.
Dating can be fun!
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