13. Fights:
Some teenagers have a tendency to pick
fights with others. These fights can be verbal, physical or a
combination of both. They can get into fights with friends, family
and even complete strangers.
This can be a huge source of worry for
parents and carers.
Again it is important not to jump to
conclusions. Share any concerns that you have with your teen when
all is calm. Listen to them and make sure you have the facts before
expressing your opinion.
Bullying takes many forms and can
really make life unpleasant for the victim.
When you hear that your child has been
involved in fighting with or bullying another person either
physically or emotionally, this can be very upsetting. It is
important to listen to your child and hear their reasons as it may be
that they are also being bullied or intimidated.
Once you have the facts it is important
that you share your opinion honestly with your teen. Let them know
when you think they have acted wrongly and provide them with the
opportunity to make amends.
If your teen is persistently aggressive
to others it is important that you challenge this. Communicate
clearly and explain the consequences of their actions.
If a young teen gets a police record
for violence, they could compromise their future chances, for example.
You can seek help and advice on-line by
visiting sites such as:
If your teen is persistently violent
towards you then the police can be contacted for help and advice.
Remember that teenagers are affected by
life experiences. If they experience violence in their lives they are
more likely to resort to violence themselves.
Counselling and other support is
available to help with this. Talk to your GP to find out what is
available in your local area.
Does your teen pick fights?
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