55. Embarrassment:
The teenage years can be years of
extreme embarrassment for some teens. Some change from being full of
self confidence to being socially awkward and incredibly
self-conscious almost overnight. Not only do they feel embarrassed at
their own thoughts, feelings and words they can also become
excruciatingly embarrassed by things that their parents and siblings
say. This can offend their family. They may have been very proud of
their family previously then all of a sudden they go to great lengths
to avoid their friends getting anywhere near them.
They can stop laughing at your jokes
and start rolling their eyes when you express your opinion. This can
hurt!
Try not to take it personally. Accept
that this is a phase and is very common. Many teens pass through this
stage fairly quickly. It is part of them growing up and forging their
own identity. They are starting to form their own ideas and opinions
and these may clash with yours.
Keep listening to your teen and be
patient with them.
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